Posted by: Lwando | June 1, 2008

up in smoke

My boyfriend smokes and I don’t. Smoking is a choice, and I choose not to smoke. I destroy my liver enough with vodka, I do not want to do the same to my lungs. God knows they are already in poor quality. I hate the smell of cigarettes, the smell nauseatesme. I grew up in a smoke free house. I don’t mind people who smoke. In-fact I love smokers, I even carried a lighter with me for a while to have conversations with smokers. It’s not the people who smoke that I do not like but the habit of smoking.

I practically told my boyfriend that I do not appreciate him smoking in the car. This is NOT my car, it’s his. I know that, but I still feel disrespected that someone smokes in the car when I don’t smoke. I told him that I would rather walk or stand outside while he smokes. I feel bad because he can’t smoke in his own car. I feel like I am being a bully, but why should I be forced to smoke when I do not want to. If I wanted to smoke I would.

I seem like I am being a bitch but I am not angry. I still love my boyfriend, but I do not want to be forced to inhale smoking.


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  1. I so agree with you! I dont mind smokers at all,
    but I dont like to be forced to smoke when Ive
    chosen not to do so. I feel its like if I would walk up to
    somebody, by force open their mouth and make them eat
    something icky, (only giving them the choice to not have to
    eat that icky stuff If they walk away).

    You cant choose not to breath. Therefor people who
    smoke needs to start doing it at places and at a distance from
    other people so nobody gets forced to smoke.

    Go Lwando!

  2. “I seem like I am being a bitch but I am not angry.”

    One reason you apparently love your boyfriend is because you can control him. Women today favor males (not men) who can be manipulated. You will find many weak minded males amongst non smokers I suggest you try one of them. Just be careful to avoid real men,smokers or non, as you will not control them.

  3. Please cancel the last post. I did not realize you are not a female and off course not interested in men.
    My apologies, I do not participate in your lifestyle but I will not oppose your choice and I certainly will not support fascist laws against you.
    I wish you well.


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